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 <title><![CDATA[March 14th - Recapping some lost info]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[Hi all, as many of you know, some blog, gallery and guestbook material has been lost. Much of it has been replaced but some is just gone. <br /><br />For those of you that left guestbook entries from mid October to late February - I'm very sorry but those entries are just not retrievable. Many of the 'lost' gallery entries have been replaced - but the numbers of photos are significantly reduced.<br /><br />I wanted to take a moment to mention the 3 fine fall events that took place in September/October of 2007. They were the Teen CONTACT event at the Meyerson Center, the AFSP Out of Darkness walk in Plano and the AFSP Out of Darkness walk in Flower Mound.<br /><br />They were all wonderful, successful&nbsp;events to raise suicide awareness and I want to thank the sponsers for inviting me and I want to thank all the people that participated. I will be putting up a few pictures here on the blog shortly. In the meantime go to the gallery to check them out. <br />]]></description>
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 <title><![CDATA[October 13th - Out of Darkness Walk in Plano]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[Please join me for the following event.<br />10/13/2007 <br />Dallas/Ft. Worth 2nd annual walk/picnic suicide prevention fund raiser<br />Out of The Darkness<br />Oak Point Park Amphitheater<br />Plano, TX</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">2nd annual suicide prevention walk &amp; picnic. This year we have leased the amphitheater in the park for an all day event. We have a honorary guest&nbsp; (Heather Hays) to perform a Rose Ceremony after the walk. Heather will also be signing her book regarding her own experinces. We have several local bands who will be performing through out the day as well. We want everyone to bring their food, drinks, blankets and chairs to relax and remember those we have lost.<br />&nbsp;</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Registration starts at 8:00, the walk begins at 9:00am!</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Event URL:<br /><a href="http://www.outofthedarkness.org/" ><a href="http://www.outofthedarkness.org/"><a href="http://www.outofthedarkness.org/">http://www.outofthedarkness.org</a></a></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Event Contact:<br />Beth Castricone<br />469-556-0787]]></description>
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 <pubDate>Mon, 8 Oct 2007 13:49:50 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[September 20th -  Teen CONTACT Event]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[Alliance Presents</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Teen CONTACT Conference</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">"Let's Talk About It"</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Saturday, September 22, 2007</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">CONTACT Crisis Line and the Dallas Symphony Orchestra will partner to co-host the first Teen CONTACT Conference on Saturday, September 22, 2007 at the Morton H. Meyerson Symphony Center. </p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">About the Conference:</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">The Teen CONTACT Conference is designed specifically for educators, counselors, Fine Arts teachers, teen youth leaders, clinicians, parents and teens.&nbsp; Sessions will cover current teen issues such as anger management, bullying and mean girls, hands-on internet safety class, drugs (cheese) and alcohol, school violence and safety and teen dating violence. Teen CONTACT's Gatekeeper Training Program and sessions on the effects of music and depression will also be presented.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Click&nbsp;<a href="http://contactcrisisline.org/news.html" ><strong>here</strong></a> for more details.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">I'll be giving a talk at the conference and so will lots of other folks - join us if you can.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Btw little Emmy is now over 5 months old and is the sweetest, happiest little girl. She is such a joy to be around. But now that she's getting a little bigger I will do better keeping up the website.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Lots of events are coming up over the next several weeks. I will post them here and on the calendar shortly. Thanks for your support.</p>
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 <pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2007 23:36:08 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[July 31st - Prioritize Keeping Our Children Whole]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[MICHAEL S. ZAMORE <br />Policy Advisor <br />OFFICE OF REPRESENTATIVE PATRICK J. KENNEDY <br />&nbsp; <br />407 Cannon House Office Building | Washington , DC 20515 <br />Ph. (202) 225.4911 | Fax (202) 225.3290&nbsp; </p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Leading The News<br />&nbsp;<br />By Rep. Patrick J. Kennedy (D-R.I.) <br />&nbsp;<br />July 24, 2007 <br />&nbsp;<br />Suicide is the third-leading cause of death among young people. More than two-thirds of youth in the juvenile justice system have diagnosable mental illnesses. By any measure, mental health problems have a devastating impact on <br />America ’s children. It is time for Congress to give this crisis the attention it warrants.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Many Americans believe that if their child were to require a specialist in children’s mental health assessment and treatment, a suitable provider would be but a phone call away, much like their pediatrician. Too many parents I have encountered have discovered the painful and frustrating reality that even children in crisis are often told to wait months for an appointment.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">As a result, each year tens of thousands of parents make the heart-wrenching choice to turn over custody of their children to state bureaucrats as the only way of ensuring their treatment. Others see their children arrested — among the 80 percent of juvenile offenders with mental illnesses. Still others pay the ultimate price, burying children who might have lived had they only had proper treatment.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">These tragedies occur because we have ignored the call to action from our nation’s leading experts in the field of children’s mental health. Expert panels like the president’s New Freedom Commission on Mental Health have warned of crippling shortages of clinicians, especially in rural areas and among certain specialties, such as those with expertise in trauma and child abuse, school and community violence, eating disorders and autism.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">The Child Healthcare Crisis Relief Act (H.R. 2073) will help bring new professionals into the pipeline.&nbsp; The bill creates educational incentives such as grants, scholarships and loan forgiveness programs to encourage more professionals to enter and remain in child and adolescent mental health. It would also support institutions of higher learning in their efforts to enhance and prioritize children’s mental health issues in their curriculum and training opportunities.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">While legislation like the Child Healthcare Crisis Relief Act must be a component of any comprehensive approach, it is not the entire solution. The shortage in child mental health care providers exists not only because there are too few specialists in this field, but also because there are too many children who require their services. To address that problem, we must focus not only on treatment, but also prevention.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Fortunately, there is a tremendous amount of research that provides insight into the specific causes of childhood mental illness. The Kaiser Foundation’s Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) study, for example, demonstrates that a child who has witnessed serious violence, lives in a household with an alcoholic or drug addict, or whose mother is clinically depressed is at high risk of developing mental health or substance abuse disorders later in life. It shows us that children with such risk factors are twice as likely to become alcoholics as children with no risk factors and four times more likely to commit suicide. The Human Genome Project and the National Children’s Study, which needs stronger congressional support, offer the prospect of further explaining how and why certain children develop mental illnesses and other diseases.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">We can and should use this knowledge to proactively seek out at-risk youth and implement early interventions that will reduce costs, both human and economic, down the road. Despite our growing understanding of the science associated with childhood mental illness, however, states constantly struggle to find federal dollars to implement proven interventions. <br />Instead, health programs like SCHIP and Medicaid base eligibility largely on family income, to the exclusion of other known risk factors.&nbsp; Few federal programs are geared toward prevention or early intervention, and those that are have not incorporated the recent explosion in science about children’s brain development.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">Rather than wait for the painful downstream consequences of inaction, states should be given the freedom to target children on the basis of known risk factors. Legislation that I will soon be introducing would give states the flexibility to directly target Medicaid services to those young children who are at the greatest risk. Furthermore, it would allow states to provide the kinds of family-based, early intervention services that we know are effective but that the federal government has been slow to embrace.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">The existing Foundations for Learning program at the Department of Education similarly makes competitive grants to community organizations that provide family-based early education services to these same children, but has been woefully underfunded. In its first year, Foundations for Learning received 158 applications for only four grants. This program should be fully reauthorized in this year’s No Child Left Behind reauthorization and better funded in the future.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px">We are currently failing children and their families twice: ignoring science that can help keep children healthy and then rationing treatment when they get sick. The challenges are great, but the opportunities for improvement are abundant. We just need the foresight and political will to pursue them.</p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px"><br />Kennedy is a member of the House Appropriations Committee.</p>
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 <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 16:17:10 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[July 27th - Healing the Bereaved Child Workshop]]></title>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 12px"><span class=Apple-style-span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">A friend of mine in California is hosting a workshop to help heal bereaved children. She sent me an email with this information. If you know someone in need, I think it might be a great workshop to attend.<br /><br />Wednesday September 5, 2007</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">8:00 am to 4:30 pm</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">Sharp HealthCare Auditorium</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><span id=lw_1185499503_6 style="BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: #0066cc 1px dashed; HEIGHT: 1em">8695 Spectrum Center Blvd</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">San Diego, CA 92123</span></span></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 12px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">This one-day interactive workshop will provide professional clinicians and counselors with useful information on how to support a child following the death of a loved one. The morning will provide you with education on the special needs of bereaved children and tools to facilitate the expression of their grief. In the interactive afternoon session you will be introduced to the use of imagery healing tools, which encourage children to use their imagination and creativity to facilitate coping strategies in their grief process.</span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 12px"><span class=Apple-style-span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><b>Course Objectives</b></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">:</span></span></span></p>
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<li style="MARGIN: 0px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">Helping Children Deal with Grief</span></span> 
<li style="MARGIN: 0px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">Creative Expressions for the Grieving Child</span></span> 
<li style="MARGIN: 0px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">The Healing Power of Children’s Imagination: Nine Tools for Treatment</span></span></li></ol>
<div style="MARGIN: 0px"><span class=Apple-style-span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><b>Keynote Speaker: </b></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">Dr. Charlotte Reznick., Ph.D.</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"></span></span></div>
<div style="MARGIN: 0px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">Dr. Reznick has dedicated her life to helping children, adolescents, parents, and professionals. She is a nationally recognized child and educational psychologist and Associate Clinical Professor of Psychology at <span id=lw_1185499503_7 style="CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: #0066cc 1px dashed; HEIGHT: 1em">UCLA</span>.</span></span></div>
<div style="MARGIN: 0px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">For over 20 years, Dr. Reznick has pioneered therapeutic interventions with a wide spectrum of children. Responding with unerring intuition to children’s diverse needs, Dr. Reznick is best known for creating Imagery for Kids: Breakthrough for Learning, Creativity, and Empowerment. This highly insightful program of guided and interactive imagery — enhanced by music, relaxation techniques, drawing, and journal writing — can help all children achieve their highest learning potential, develop self-esteem heal internal conflicts, and reduce overall stress.</span></span></div>
<div style="MARGIN: 0px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">Her audio programs, “Discovering Your Special Place” and “Creating a Magical Garden and Healing Pond,” soothing guided journeys to inner peace, have been listened to and loved by young children, adolescents, and adults alike. These CDs lay the groundwork for Dr. Reznick's Imagery for Kids program.</span></span></div>
<div style="MARGIN: 0px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">Especially talented and uniquely qualified to share her work with others, Dr. Reznick has presented Imagery for Kids to thousands of professionals, psychologists and educators at local, national, and international levels. For more info visit <a href="http://www.imageryforkids.com/"  target=_blank rel=nofollow><span id=lw_1185499503_8 style="BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%"><font color=#003399>www.imageryforkids.com</span></span></a>.</span></font></div>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 12px"><span class=Apple-style-span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><b>Workshop Schedule</b></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">: </span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">8:00 - Registration</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">8:30 - Welcome, </span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><span style="font-style: italic;">Randye Golden-Grant, Bereavement Counselor, Sharp HospiceCare</span></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">8:45 - Helping Children Deal with Grief, </span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><span style="font-style: italic;">Laura Grayson, MSW, Supervisor of Bereavement and Social Services, Sharp HospiceCare</span></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">10:15 - Break</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">10:30 - Creative Expressions for the Grieving Child, </span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><span style="font-style: italic;">Colleen Linnertz, MA, Bereavement Counselor, Sharp HospiceCare</span></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">12:00 - Lunch</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">1:00 - The Healing Power of Children’s Imagination: Nine Tools for Treatment, </span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><span style="font-style: italic;">Charlotte Reznick, Ph.D., Educational Psychologist, Associate Clinical Professor of Psychology, UCLA</span></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">3:45 - Questions</span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><br /></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">4:15 - Conclusion and Evaluations</span></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 12px"><span class=Apple-style-span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><b>CEU Credit</b></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">: Seven hours of Continuing Education Units (CEUs) provided by Sharp HospiceCare. Board of Behavioral Sciences: PCE427. Board of Registered Nursing: CEP13040.</span></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 12px"><span class=Apple-style-span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal"><b>Fee Information</b></span></span><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal">: The registration fee of $100 includes lunch, workshop materials, and seven CEUs.</span></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 12px"><span style="class=Apple-style-span face=Arial color=#444444 size=3"><span class=Apple-style-span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px">To enroll please call <span id=lw_1185499503_9 style="CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: #0066cc 1px dashed; HEIGHT: 1em">1-800-82-SHARP</span> (<span id=lw_1185499503_10 style="CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: #0066cc 1px dashed; HEIGHT: 1em">1-800-827-4277</span>), Monday through Friday, 8:00 AM to 6:00 PM.</span></span></p></div>]]></description>
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 <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2007 01:25:00 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[July 26th - It's Been Months...]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[since I have written here - so a huge thanks to my friend Stan for keeping up with things for me! And I&nbsp;also want to thank&nbsp;everybody who sent an email about the baby - I have tons to answer - and I am working on it every day. So if I haven't responded yet, I promise I will.<br /><br />Things have been very busy - but wonderful - since Emmy arrived. She is such a&nbsp;happy baby! Every morning when she wakes up and gives me that genuine smile of hers - it melts my heart! I hope to teach her about the amazing things this world has to offer. I also want to be a good role model for her - a mother she respects and loves. And I&nbsp;want to teach her that it is important to give back. And that's why I want her to know that I take part in suicide awareness programs. We each have to find something we are passionate about - and can make a difference with. I know Emmy will find her place - like I have found mine.<br /><br />Thanks for sticking with me during my absence. Have a great rest of your week! Thanks again for all of your support! Here are some fresh photos of little Emmy!<br /><img title=Miss_April height=150 alt=emmyblog2_1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog2_1.jpg" width=136><img title=Baptism_Day height=150 alt=emmyblog3_1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog3_1.jpg" width=150><img title=At_The_Pool height=150 alt=emmyblog4_1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog4_1.jpg" width=148><img title=Just_Relaxing height=150 alt=emmyblog5_1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog5_1.jpg" width=159><img title=At_The_Beach height=150 alt=emmyblog1_1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog1_1.jpg" width=142><img title=Me_And_Mom height=150 alt=emmyblog6_1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog6_1.jpg" width=160>]]></description>
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 <pubDate>Thu, 26 Jul 2007 20:22:16 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[April 22nd - Emmy at Home and 11 Days Old]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[Emmy turned 11 days old yesterday (the 21st) and has been settling in with Jeff and Heather for about a week. This will probably be my (Stan) last update - Heather shoud be taking over again shortly. I did go over to visit yesterday and took some updated photos. Please see the photo <a href="http://heatherhays.com/gallery/main.php" >Gallery</a> and look at the new photos in the album titled "<a href="http://www.heatherhays.com/gallery/main.php?g2_view=core.ShowItem&amp;g2_itemId=2931">Emmy's Home</a>!" The whole family is very happy. I think the photos speak for themselves.<br /><br /><img title=Bluebonnets height=150 alt=emmyhomeblog1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyhomeblog1.jpg" width=159 />&nbsp;<img title=Heather_and_Emmy height=150 alt=emmyapril21_blog.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyapril21_blog.jpg" width=203><br /><img title=Having_Fun height=150 alt=emmyhomeblog3.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyhomeblog3.jpg" width=191>&nbsp;<img title=Jeff_Heather_Emmy height=150 alt=emmyhomeblog4.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyhomeblog4.jpg" width=188><br /><img title=Jeff_and_Emmy height=150 alt=emmyhomeblog5.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyhomeblog5.jpg" width=200>&nbsp;<img title=Our_Baby height=150 alt=emmyhomeblog6.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyhomeblog6.jpg" width=205>]]></description>
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 <pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 20:09:21 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[April 18th - Emmy Update]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[Just a brief note (from Stan again)&nbsp;to let everyone know Heather and&nbsp;Emmy checked out of the hospital&nbsp;this past weekend. The baby is doing great! Heather is recuperating and still quite tired but as happy as can be. She loves being a new mom! No new pictures yet but every attempt will be made to show Emmy in her home and nursery by the end of the weekend. Stay tuned...]]></description>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2007 00:26:57 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[April 12th - Emmy - 2 Days Old]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[Stan blogging here again. Heather&nbsp;and Emmy will likely be going home on Saturday. They are both doing great -&nbsp;but Heather is understandably starting to feel some discomfort.<br />&nbsp;<br />In the meantime here are some more pics of Emmy (and family)&nbsp;in the hospital. I shot these this afternoon (April 12th). Remember that Jeff and Heather (and others)&nbsp;are taking lots of photos but they are a bit too busy to be putting any up right now- but I'm sure they will as the days go by.&nbsp;So these will have to suffice for now. <br /><br />The photos in the gallery that were taken today are labeled April 12. The other&nbsp;photos are from April 10th, the day she was born. ALL BABY PHOTOS are in the photo <a href="http://www.heatherhays.com/gallery/main.php" >Gallery</a> titled "<a href="http://www.heatherhays.com/gallery/main.php?g2_view=core.ShowItem&amp;g2_itemId=2795">Our Baby Emmy</a>".<br /><br /><img title=Waking_up height=150 alt=emmyblog1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog1.jpg" width=146 />&nbsp;<img title=Heather_and_Emmy height=150 alt=emmyblog2.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog2.jpg" width=154>&nbsp;<img title=Family height=150 alt=emmyblog3.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog3.jpg" width=136><img title=Jeff_and_Emmy height=150 alt=emmyblog5.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog5.jpg" width=132><br /><br /><img title=Lynda_holding_Emmy height=150 alt=emmyblog4.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog4.jpg" width=141>&nbsp;<img title=emmyblog6.jpg height=150 alt=emmyblog6.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/emmyblog6.jpg" width=145>&nbsp;<br />]]></description>
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 <pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2007 21:41:30 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title><![CDATA[April 10th - The Birth of Emmy!]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[Heather and baby are fine!! (This is Stan filling in for a blog or two.)&nbsp;During Heather's&nbsp;checkup this afternoon the doctors decided a&nbsp;C-section was in order. So around 6 pm Texas time they commenced and a few minutes later - the most adorable little baby made its appearance into this world. <br /><br />The whole family is ecstatic - Jeff, Heather, sister Cecily. Other family members in attendance - Heather's mom and sister, Lynda and&nbsp;Hollie as well as Jeff's sister Anne Marie. A host of friends were there as well, Evan and his wife, Shannon, Mark and Jana along with Joe (Hollie's boyfriend). <br /><br />Right now I only have time to put&nbsp;up a few pictures&nbsp;I managed to&nbsp;take around 9 o'clock. But rest assured with the flashes going off and shutters clicking - there will be many more in the days to come. But for now, please go to the photo <a href="http://www.heatherhays.com/gallery/main.php" >Gallery</a> and see this beautiful little baby girl. And I can tell you first hand - she has quite a voice as well!! Btw Emmy weighed in at 8 pounds 14 ounces and is 20 1/2 inches!<br /><br /><img title=Baby_Emmy height=150 alt=babyemmyBLOG1.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/babyemmyBLOG1.jpg" width=178 />&nbsp;<img title=A_New_Addition height=131 alt=babyemmyBLOG2.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/babyemmyBLOG2.jpg" width=126>&nbsp;<br /><img title=Mom_and_Baby height=130 alt=babyemmyBLOG3.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/babyemmyBLOG3.jpg" width=140>&nbsp;<img title=Jeff_and_Emmy height=118 alt=babyemmyblog4.jpg src="http://heatherhays.com/blog/media/babyemmyblog4.jpg" width=150><br /><br />]]></description>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2007 01:30:28 -0500</pubDate>
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