Welcome
The title of the book describes its contents pretty well; these are "life stories from those left behind." Yes, the stories are heartbreaking. But each story offers hope and inspiration. This book is my gift to Brett. Through it, Brett's spirit lives on - and in his memory, I have dedicated a large portion of my life to helping others left behind. I also want to do whatever I can to prevent another tragic death. I don't want anyone to feel the pain that I and so many others have felt.
There are more than four dozen stories in my book. Each story is that of a life that ended too soon. After each story is a letter written by a loved one left behind. Writing is such an incredible tool and those who wrote letters said it was one of the most difficult, yet most healing things they had done for themselves. You'll find letters to lost loved ones written by wives, husbands, children, parents, lovers, friends and siblings. As sad as each story is, you will find hope, strength, and the will to move forward.
In addition to the stories in this book you will find solid advice from mental health professionals and clergy on how to cope, and how to ultimately heal yourself. Crisis support group contact information is also provided. I've included email addresses of survivors so you can get in touch with those who have been through this ordeal. Communication is key - without it, more lives will be lost. And lastly, the book includes my own story, letters to Brett, and a section titled "Healing Hearts" which describes how I managed to begin moving forward.
"Thank you for reading these stories and for keeping the memories of our loved ones alive. Take care of yourself and be safe on your life's journey. You will find your way home again. You will feel safe again. Look forward to that day because if you let it, it will come."